The
Cindy Martin Story
An explosion left her broken, bloodied, and missing a leg. This devastating violence happened to a young girl who had spent her whole life up to that point overcoming heartbreak and adversity. Neglect, abandonment, and abuse overshadowed the childhood of Cindy Martin. But after joining the Air Force to escape her hardships, she could never have guessed that her new journey was leading her right into the middle of a terrorist attack that would shatter her life and change her future. Cindy had been forged by tough breaks all her life, and with the lessons she learned along the way, she was a natural survivor.
Cindy learned the necessity of diligent, hard work at a
young age. She never enjoyed an ideal childhood with a supportive mother and
father to guide her through life’s challenges and keep her safe from harm. In
fact, Cindy was only three years old when she started caring for her younger
sister. By first grade she was ironing clothes and helping around the house.
But in addition, it fell upon her to get her brother and sister ready for
school. And before she could do that, she had to feed her neighbor’s animals. The
reason she took on the extra roles of mother and provider in grade school is
that her mother and father were heavy drinkers. As a result, her mother slept
in. Not only that, her father was often out of town on work.
Depression followed her and threatened to destroy her
life, but Cindy learned to overcome her depression. She had a horse, so to get
a rest from her burdens she often took long rides into the wilderness areas
near her home. She would lie under the fruit trees and look at the clouds. She
would cry in the foothills and orchards of Loomis, California. She took hikes
with her dog. Years earlier, some childhood friends took her to summer Vacation
Bible School. Now, as she rode in the hills and walked orchards with her dog,
she found God in nature.
Danger of abuse and the threats of victimization taught
Cindy to reach out for help. With an absent father, some saw it as an
opportunity to take advantage of her. It began when a neighbor boy abused her
and used threats to keep her quiet. Things got even worse when a creep
approached her in the 7th grade and tried to abduct her. She ran,
and running probably saved her life. She called the police, but got no
response. Then at school she was called to the principal’s office. The police
were there and wanted to know what had happened. When her parents were
mentioned, Cindy said she wasn’t going to get any help from her parents. Later,
a man who knew her family tried to groom her to be a mistress. At first, Cindy
was frozen in fear. Then she confronted him, and he backed off. Taking action
and reaching out to others was proving essential, but that’s not all.
Around this time, the lessons of prayer touched her life.
Cindy’s grandmother in Michigan often prayed for her. On a visit to her
grandmother’s, she went to church. Seeds were planted that would be
crucial to her later on when tragedy struck. And tragedy was going to strike
very soon.
In high school, Cindy learned about herself and her place
in the world—aside from her home life. She was blessed to have teachers that
encouraged her because she was super shy. One of them told her, “Be more
outgoing. You have a lot going for you. You need to get out and enjoy school.”
Kind words like this gave her confidence that she desperately needed.
As a young lady, she also learned new kinds of
responsibility. During high school, someone had to pick her mother up at the
bar close to midnight, and Cindy was always there for her mother, who was
fighting her own personal battles. However, it was not easy to shoulder this
burden and also be up early for her other responsibilities and getting to
school on time. After high school, she got a chance to work on a ranch in
Oregon. She cooked pies and pot roast for the workers during harvest. She took
her responsibilities seriously and always did her best. She was treated like
part of the family, and she cared for the farmer’s kids. She taught them
responsibility, making them clean their room. She was always very strict with
the kids. When she came home past curfew one night, the farmer and his wife
were not happy that she had misled them. For the first time outside of school,
Cindy saw that there were grown-ups who cared about her and worried about her.
From then on, she took her responsibility in communication to others seriously.
Just as she was
starting to find her way in life, she took a detour that would teach her new
lessons that would carry her through extreme personal trials.
One day, her friend Patsy said, “Let’s join the
military.” Cindy thought it was a good idea, but when the day came, Patsy
backed out. Cindy, however, followed through. She joined the Air Force in May
1978. She was smart and did well in the military. She thrived in electronics at
her airbase in Germany. She was the first woman in the microwave communication
shop, dealing with communication from microwave towers. She went to fiber
optics school and often worked all night installing fiber optics systems in the
microwave shop. This was agreeable because she had married a violent alcoholic,
thinking she could fix him. That didn’t work out, and her problems were just
beginning.
In 1980, ten soldiers, including Cindy, went to
Oktoberfest. There were thousands of people from all over the world, many
flocking to cement buildings full of beer drinkers. On the third night, Cindy
and four others were walking into the festival grounds. Outside, the atmosphere
was much like a state fair in America. People were drinking, eating, and
singing.
Cindy was about to learn to persevere through extreme
pain and adversity. Also at Oktoberfest was a fascist extremist who wanted to
kill innocents for political reasons on September 26, 1980. He was rigging explosives
when the bomb went off prematurely. The terrorist’s body landed on a taxi. Over
two hundred were injured. Thirteen were killed. The surprised taxi driver hurried
over and put a tourniquet on Cindy’s severely bleeding leg, probably saving her
life. Cindy landed in hospital with shrapnel in her back. Part of her nose was
blown off. She was partially paralyzed. She had major shoulder injuries. She
had a head injury, a major concussion. Most of her right foot was gone. And she
lost a leg. She had no pain in her left side due to the shrapnel wound in her
back; however, her right side was in constant pain for two years. She had major
skin grafts on her back. Specialists built her prosthetic legs. She spent the
next nine months in the hospital. Through it all, she persevered, always
remembering the kind words of her high school teachers, the love of the people
in her squadron, and the love of the ranch family.
Along with perseverance, she learned to have a sense of
humor. Being a 23 year old girl in the hospital for nine months and having to
use a bed pan and being assisted by young men was humiliating at first.
Finally, she learned to laugh and not take herself too seriously. Also, the man
who built her leg was a Vietnam vet, an amputee, who was a crazy-fun guy. In a
way, he set the tone and helped her to have a sense of humor in the midst of
her circumstances.
Along with her sense of humor, she learned to never feel
sorry for herself. She would always read about someone who had it worse off
than her. Therefore, she looked at the positive. She always remembered
something her father had told her: “Only wimps whine.” It also became clear to
her that complaining never did her any good. But even more important, all the
ups and downs showed her a pattern with adversity—a pattern that could bring
hope into darkness.
She learned that problems are
temporary. She says, “So many people end their lives too quickly when they
think they have problems. Everyone is so valuable. Everyone can do good for
someone else. If I can convince others to believe that then evil doesn’t win.”
But there was another lesson that gave Cindy strength. After
all she suffered due to the terror attack, after persevering through the pain,
trauma, and heart break, she now felt there was nothing she couldn’t do.
Cindy went on to live a full life and overcome obstacles
every single day with a great attitude. After raising a family and after her
husband passed away, she went back to college at age sixty.
Just walking across the stage to get her degree was a
challenge, but it was also another great victory in the school of life.
Check out Cindy's inspirational story on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPYTK8S6THM